Your love language

How you give (and receive) affection

We don't all express love the same way. Discover your preferred love language.

10 questions

The questions

To show your affection…
- I say it with tender words
- Through a hug, a touch
- By spending time together
- Through small helpful gestures
What touches you the most from the other…
- A sincere 'I love you'
- A hand in yours
- An evening just for the two of you
- That someone thinks of you without you asking
A perfect day together…
- Long conversations
- Snuggled up against each other
- A shared activity
- Your partner prepared a surprise
What you miss the most in their absence…
- Their voice, their words
- Their physical presence
- Your moments together
- That they take care of you
To make up after an argument…
- An honest discussion
- A hug that fixes everything
- Getting back to doing something together
- A thoughtful gesture
The gift that touches you the most…
- A handwritten letter
- A long embrace
- A day just for the two of you
- An object made for you
To comfort your partner…
- I find the right words
- I take them in my arms
- I stay close, being present
- I take care of everything to relieve them
What makes you feel loved…
- Being told I'm loved
- Having my hand held
- That someone dedicates time to me
- That someone takes care of me
Your tender gesture upon waking…
- A sweet word
- A hug
- Lounging in bed together
- Making breakfast
When apart, what you miss…
- Our conversations
- Their physical presence
- Our shared moments
- Taking care of each other

Words · You love through words: tenderness, compliments, long conversations. Saying is loving.
Touch · A hug is worth a thousand words. Physical closeness is your heart's mother tongue.
Quality time · What matters is the moment together. Your full presence is your most beautiful gift.
Acts of service · You love by doing. Thoughtful gestures are your way of saying 'I care about you.'