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How do you fall in love?

The way love settles in you

Thunderbolt, slow certainty, or caution: discover how love takes root in you.

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The questions

  1. A meeting that really appeals to you...
    • I know it in a few minutes
    • I feel a quiet certainty
    • I first want us to become friends
    • I get carried away very quickly, all in
    • I remain cautious, I'm wary of myself
  2. The time it takes you to say 'I love you'...
    • Very little, I feel it right away
    • The time it takes to become a certainty
    • The time to get to know each other well
    • Quickly, my heart overflows
    • A long time, I want to be sure
  3. What makes you fall first...
    • An immediate, electric chemistry
    • A feeling of calm and rightness
    • True closeness, fits of laughter
    • A shared, consuming passion
    • Trust, to be earned
  4. Your friends say that in love, you are...
    • The type to catch fire quickly
    • Stable and serene
    • More of a buddy/friend above all
    • Intense, sometimes too much
    • Hard to tame
  5. At the beginning of a story, you...
    • Walk on air from the start
    • Let yourself be carried, confident(ly)
    • Build closeness first
    • Give everything, without holding back
    • Keep a part of yourself in reserve
  6. The idea of 'great love', for you...
    • It exists, and it strikes suddenly
    • It's built over time
    • It often starts with friendship
    • It's a consuming passion
    • It takes time and proof
  7. When you think of someone you like...
    • I can't think of anything else, immediately
    • I feel good, without getting carried away
    • I mainly want to spend time together
    • I already imagine a whole life
    • I slow down, I don't want to get carried away
  8. What you fear most in love...
    • That the initial flame dies out
    • Not much, I feel solid
    • Losing the friend along with the love
    • Not being loved back as strongly
    • Being mistaken and regretting it
  9. To move forward in a relationship, you need...
    • To follow my instinct, without overthinking
    • To feel it's right and peaceful
    • A foundation of friendship and trust
    • Intensity, strong emotions
    • Guarantees and time
  10. The ideal pace for a new story...
    • Right away, without waiting
    • Natural, neither too fast nor too slow
    • Gentle, starting from friendship
    • Fusional, seeing each other all the time
    • Slow, so I don't burn my wings
  11. A romantic disappointment, you experience it...
    • Strongly in the moment, then I bounce back quickly
    • With distance, it doesn't bring me down for long
    • By leaning on my friends
    • Very intensely, it turns me inside out
    • As confirmation that one should be wary
  12. Deep down, your way of loving is...
    • A lightning bolt that seizes you
    • A calm and sure river
    • A friendship that catches fire
    • A fire that devours you
    • A door you only open in trust

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